[DrPhil]

If it was so easy to gain confidence, that young lady should have been searching websites on her own. And once these young ladies get to campus, they need to ask where are these non-white members around campus. Seeing them around campus (or not) will speak volumes over searching websites for them.

Anywho, her friend needs to either try it or not try it. Find her best fit and don't assume that "the sorority with the most Asian women" is the best fit.