08-04-2011, 12:30 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: naples, florida
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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
I would get involved, but tread gently. I could see you trying to jump in and be super helpful to make up for any prior transgressions and have it seen as you trying to take over, or that you're better at it than the others.
If most of the gals you had these issues with are still collegiates, it might be worth waiting a year or two to get involved with the collegiate chapter, but that's not the same as getting involved with the alumnae chapter. The 40 year old members are not going to care about some fight you got in over a boy or who got to be homecoming chair or whatever.
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great advice!
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