Lane-swerving here, but I just like to bring up this question:
Is it possible to choose the wrong sorority if you got all the experiences and bonding that you're supposed to get?
Perhaps there are multiple chapters that may have worked.
That said, I do know of a few friends at my college who went through formal recruitment, just didn't feel it during their pledging period, and dropped before initiation. One thing about all of those is that they wouldn't be on here today as they're no longer part of the Greek community.
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