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					Originally Posted by  KDMafia
					 
				 
				No but I wonder what would have happened if I went through earlier.  I joined the Fall of my Sophomore year and joined a chapter where I had very close friends.  I wonder what would have happened if I would have gone through formal my Freshman year as I would not be surprised if I ended up elsewhere just based on where my head was my freshman year and my lack of knowledge of anyone other than a handful of girls in each chapter.  I think wonder how I would have turned out. 
			
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 I do believe sometimes I picked the wrong chapter. Which is my fault of course I could have turned down my bid.  I had a bunch of friends in a house on my campus, and seeing it from an outsiders point of view it seemed great. I rushed formal as a sophomore, but I really did give other chapters a chance. I actually would have rather joined another and have close friends in multiple house. But it worked out how it worked out and I am embracing the chance to have a house at all.