Hi everyone,
I am going through the same thing. My boyfriend got really drunk and made out with another girl. Then, he decided we weren't working out and instead of trying to resolve things, he broke up with me a week before our two year anniversary! He used the old excuse that he needed time to figure things out. His roommate and several of his friends have told me not to give up on him because he still loves me but he's scared because we're at the age (we're both turning 26 next month) where we should be thinking about marriage and houses, but he's not ready for that and he's worried that he won't be able to provide for us. They also say he feels really guilty for cheating on me and he thinks I deserve better than him. That may be true, but I love him and want to work things out. It's so hard to let go when all of his friends are telling me that we belong together and he will come around soon. I'm not waiting forever. My friends and family have been an amazing support system throughout this whole ordeal. There's also a great message baord where you can go and write whatever you are feeling and get great feedback and encouragement from people who have gone through it too. You should all check it out:
http://members.boardhost.com/Tigress/
Good luck to everyone!