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For me I hadn't connected truly with any chapter at all beyond the surface until Round 3. The videos made me really see what I was looking for in three of the 5 chapters I visited. When 2 of them invited me to pref I was so excited! I went to one, liked it, but I didn't feel anything deeper than the day before. Then I when I went to the next chapter, I literally had the best conversation of the entire week and I bawled the entire ceremony. I was hooked. I still wasn't sure a sorority was for me, but I went ahead and turned in my pref sheet with the second chapter as my number one, which has now been my home for three years. I can't say that everyone will have that, but I knew that I could easily choose between the two for ranking them.
I actually found out later that one older sister who had liked me a lot from a previous round looked to see if I was crying during the ceremony. She pretty much knew I would be on their lawn on bid day - and she was right! I thought that was a funny tidbit to the story. So, sometimes the women of a chapter will have that moment about you, too!
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