[DubaiSis]

I shared with my rusher that I was uncomfortable knowing that I was being talked about during rush. She said, "we don't talk about rushees." And I was sold. And, by the way, we didn't. And no, I'm not going to tell you how it DID work.

But I would like to share a caveat. Not all girls do have THAT moment, but that doesn't mean they aren't meant to join a sorority. Some girls have that moment as a pledge or their love for the sorority builds over time. Having lived through rush season on GC a couple times now, a lot of girls think there's going to be a moment where the heavens open and harp music begins to play. Rush may be magical, but it's not LITERALLY magic. It's a very formalized way of making friends. Try not to make more of it than that. The magic happens at different points in a girl's sorority life.