A general comment on lying to a sorority or in life: Are you so stupid as to think a group of fairly sophisticated young women, who's "job" it is (at the moment) to perpetuate a group or business that they believe in won't check you out?
Of course they read your application and your recs because it is important to the sisters that their chapter remain strong.
As I mentioned in my daughter's recruitment thread my daughter knew a girl going through a second time. The girl was very vocal and proud that she had received a bid to Top Tier House, but turned them down. (This would presuppose that she had two houses at Pref, both excellent choices.) No......the girl was dropped by every house asap.
....and how (and why) would you become a sister to girls you lie to get accepted? You will always be on guard.
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