[QUOTE]Originally posted by QUEEN:
[B]NOW, I KNEW A GIRL ONCE AND SHE WANTED TO BE A MEMBER OF MY SORORITY AND SHE AND I WENT TO THE RUSH TOGETHER. I GOT ACCEPTED AND SHE DIDN'T. SHE SAID SHE WAS HAPPY FOR ME AND I TOLD HER IT WASN'T THE END OF THE WORLD SHE COULD TRY AGAIN. SHE LEFT AND ATTENDED ANOTHER SCHOOL.WELL!!! WHEN AT A STEP SHOW I SAW HER AND THERE SHE WAS DECKED OUT IN RED AND WHITE."

I also had a friend that was accused of wearing nalia. Her grandmother is an AKA and it all started with her going to the high school during a break and driving her grandmother's car and she happened to have a lettered key chain. When someone said "I didn't know you pledged" she did not deny it. From that when wearing shirts to Alpha parties and so on. Of course it got back to the chapter and it was a healthy thing that she was not coming back to school. I pledged the semester after she did this and had talked to her about it. She denied it but a lot of people remember her doing it. Sorors and Frat. A lot of people wanted me to be mad with her and to threaten her, etc. But I knew her life and her horrible need for affliation. Yes,I think that everyone should have to work for my Pearls but sometimes people have an underlining problem that causes them to do things like this. I've neverbeen in a situation where I was totally insecure about myself and needed other people to justify my self worth. Some people need that. Sometimes people admire things to the point where even a false glimpse of the prize is good enough for them.