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Take it with a grain of salt, as fraternities and sororities are (obviously) different, but my freshman year a guy joined a fraternity and then transferred to the Naval Academy. He was previously in ROTC, and it balanced pretty well, and once he transferred he kept in touch with his brothers, and many came to visit him (and were later in his wedding).
It's definitely doable, but it will take a lot of commitment to both. I would say go through recruitment -- you can always drop out if you're not sure if you can do it after getting to talk to the girls.
Avoid GR. According to that site, all sororities are either slutty, stupid, awkward, fat, coked-out, or some combination thereof. Meet the sororities and see how you feel, make your own impressions.
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