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It was mentioned above that at Auburn, it's getting pretty common for moms to take a hotel room in town for the week. This isn't really true. In the past, there have been a few moms who have come to town for the week, but it's not common or encouraged. The potential members are kept very busy and there is really nothing for the parents to do. When a handful of parents show up at recruitment events, it's awkward for them and their daughters. Rather than appearing supportive, they look like (using a phrase from above) helicopter parents.
However, parents are invited to bid day and bid day events. Those are fun and intended to introduce a new member and her parents to the organization. The events only last a couple of hours, though. The sorority will work hard to reinforce the connection made during recruitment, so parents who can't be there shouldn't be discouraged. Still, only about half of the new members have parents there, and those who don't have family there will not be lonely.
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