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Ok- I understand that you are wanting a group that will match everything on your list (good rep, social, top academics, people in your major).

Every chapter is a mix. The ones that are very social want the guys who do well academically; it will get them off of academic probation. The ones that don't have people with your major want people with your major; it will get them an "insider" or connection with other pnms in your major. (I was the only Poli Sci major when I joined my chapter. Guess what? I brought 4 other Poli Sci majors in the next year.)

Be a bit more open to the other chapters. Do you absolutely hate their members? Then that's the reason not to join. Don't write them off because they don't have everything on your list.