I had heard back in my day of social affiliates who would come to just the parties! Why would a Fraternity want anyone who would just come and party!
We ivite someone as a Recruting function bur only once!! They will either become a New Associate and get Intitated or they are gone!
We as Greeks try to build membership not have fun guys who do not do anything but come to have a good time!!!!!!!
In for the ounce in for the pound! So To SPEAK!