[IrishLake]

Recs come from a member of that particular sorority. Only a Kappa sister can write a rec for the KKG sisters at your school, etc. Different groups have different policies though. Some groups only allow alumni to write recs, other groups allow active sisters to write recs.

So if you need recs, find as many sorority women as possible and ask if they'll write a rec for you. You may also contact your local alumnae panhellenic group.