[Barbie's_Rush]

Originally Posted by TXgirl082011

I deleted it because I felt it gave away the school I was attending.

Really?

Originally Posted by 2ndchance

I'll tyr to keep this short. I went throught recruitment as an undergrad, received a bid from Tri Sigma, later that night I told them I couldn't do it. I had told my bf i got in adn he made some really bad comments so I changed my yes to a no. Well i finally realized how horrible that relationship was, am no longer wtih him, adn in graduate school. i have been told I can go through formal recruitment this Fall but I am only eligible to join Tri-Sigma and not the other 3 because they don't accept grad students. I have 2 years of grad school left. I will have either a 3.5 or 3.75 GPA b the end of this summer. My final undergraduate GPA was a 3.1something.

Any advice for going through a second time? Do I tell them why I changed my mind the first time around (about two years ago) because of "controlling" boyfriend? Sould I suicide big for Tri Sigma or just list it as #1 of the 4 sororities at my school. It was always my first pick and still would be even if I was eligible for the others. I can't remember how much time you actually talk to people on the first day, I know its fast and you trade people, would I have time to really explain what hapened the first time with the bid? Will I count towards their quota or will I be a freebe?