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Wow..... I hope she doesn't plan on crashing at your place.....
That is no fun. How awkward! However, if she gets free tickets, she should be able to cancel without any penalty, I would assume. I know you might need to have an awkward conversation with her, but maybe it would be best over FB messages (not texts, as that could go on forever) about what you've said in your post- that you don't really know her, that you feel a little weird about her coming to visit when you have something going on, and you feel that it's a time that you should be devoting to your project and your family. Not someone that you don't know. You may end up having to let her down in a way that is something like "I'm sorry, but I have my life with my family and my work here, and I quite like the friends that I have now, and quite frankly, it makes me feel uncomfortable that someone I have never met is flying in to visit without an invitation. I'm sorry if you misunderstood any intentions I had in posting my activities on Facebook." You can respond to any of her follow-up messages with clarification, but after that, delete her as a friend and cease communication. Hopefully, she should get the hint.
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