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Originally Posted by tld221
This is what I gather from this thread.
A question: for those who transfer to another school and attempt to affiliate, and are unsuccessful, your greek life COMPLETELY ends? Like, could you wear letters and attend greek parties? Participate in other greek activities? Would you have to spend the remainder of your UG life explaining to people that "youre an XYZ, but not a State U XYZ?"
Does not affiliating = that chapter not acknowledging you at all? If I had a class with an XYZ there, would she shun me because I wasnt given a bid there? I just wonder what the overall consensus is, socially.
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In the scenario dgdramadawg described, them not affiliating the woman is kind of exactly what you described in the first paragraph. As far as "Greek parties" it depends what you mean. She most likely wouldn't be allowed to go to closed mixers, and definitely not to date parties, but if NOP fraternity has a general party, she can go to that, the same as anyone else can.
Whether the sisters of the chapter would outright "shun" her is anyone's guess. I would hope not. But if she attempted to get into their group through nefarious means...I wouldn't blame them if they did. That's a 2 part crime. 1) Using a less-popular chapter to get initiated; and 2) trying to put one over on the sisters of the more-popular chapter.