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Old 06-22-2011, 12:23 PM
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Wow! Good for you for getting through all of that. I agree with others- stay general and stay positive. I have a weird, non-sequential past so I have to deal with stuff like this from time to time. People asking questions in a get to know you way but it is hard when things don't follow the usual timeline. One thing that works is give a short answer and then ask them about themselves. Most people like talking about themselves, it seems natural in the course of the convo and not an obvious "subject change." for example, I started at CC. How about you? How long did it take you to get used to this place as a freshman? It's huge! Then sister is talking about her experiences and the convo moves along nicely.

One bit of concern, and you don't have to answer on here...but think about it. Do you have a good support system for your eating disorder as you adjust to college? That is stressful, recruitement and new member period is stressful. Can you call or visit support people? Even just keeping in touch with them on a regular basis is a good idea, because then if (when) something terrible happens suddenly (breakup, failed exam) you will have people to talk to- it's not like you'll be calling them out of the blue. Also your new school might have a group to support you also. Good luck!!!
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