[FuzzieAlum]

Rush counselors pretty much have to say "don't suicide - here are the dangers of it" - because that's Panhellenic's official stand, and they are representing Panhellenic.

Was my school unique in using young alums as Rho Chis instead of undergrads?

And to the guys who are confused and don't like our system - yes, it is confusing, but most of us like it better than your system. With formal rush at least every girl gets to explore all the choices the campus has to offer her. She knows what she is choosing. With the fraternities, most guys go to only a few houses (we had 17 total) - how are they sure they are in the right place for them? It's different strokes for different folks, I guess, and we like our system well enough for now.