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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Never happened to us, but really, if she's not an "omg this girl is AWFUL" person (just someone people were indifferent about), let her stay.
I've heard a lot of stories of the girl who wasn't exactly The Must Have PNM who ended up being a real Suzy Sigma.
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No, that's not the point. If the majority of people say they didn't vote in a way that is standard for women to receive a bid in the organization, she shouldn't get a bid, no matter how blandly inoffensive she is. If the wishes of the members are going to be overridden by the GA/alumnae/rush chair, why bother going through the fallacy of voting on PNMs?
Yeah, it sucks for the rushee, but the whole chapter shouldn't have to pay for something that one person decided and take a member they didn't want. One person tried to do a slip through, got called on their crap, and now has to explain to the rushee.
It's really hard to talk about how "okay" this is without getting too deeply into MS procedures, which of course are different for every group.