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I think that it differs for everyone.
People have their preferences, but from experience, when you meet the right person, lists don't matter as much. From early on, my husband and I were headed in the same direction, and engagement (and then marriage) happened when we were ready to move ahead.
I had a serious high school boyfriend and early college boyfriend. My husband was different in the sense that I never had to wonder where we were headed. We just "were". There's a wonderful feeling that comes with contentment in where you are at any given moment.
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