On the alumnus aspect of it:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=44280
On the gay aspect of it:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=99988
Frankly, I've never heard of lavaliering someone with honor society letters. And doesn't it raise the same issue LaneSig raised -- he could be mistaken for a member.