When I came through in the Fall of 99....we were given the decision to suicide or not. We were never told not to, but we were all aware of what would happen if we suicided and did not get extended a bid to that chapter. I think that I spent a good 15 minutes trying to decide what to do. I had went to pref at DG and ADPi that day. So it was really between them. I knew from the moment I began rush that I wanted to be a DG but I kept running it through my head. However, I decided that I would suicide DG because I knew that was where I wanted to be. Of course now....I am a DG and I love every minute of it and wouldn't have changed my choice at all back then.
My advice to PNMs would be to do what they want....I did. Whether it is suicide the chapter they really want to be in or be happy with a chapter that they put down as second choice. It is their decision and theirs only.
BTW.....I'm sure everyone knows this but just a reminder that the name PX is not to be used anymore. It is to be Recruitment Counselor or something else. We have changed it to Rho Gamma at Akron. Has anyone else changed theirs??
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