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Originally Posted by 33girl
Don't you do anything to notify the bidded PNMs so they don't have to worry like that? I.e., if they don't get a phone call, they know they have a bid somewhere?
I would hate like hell to get a letter saying I didn't get a bid while the girl next door to me in the dorm is jumping up and down from happiness because she did. At least give the bidless girls a chance to leave what could be a potentially very upsetting situation.
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You get all your letters at different times. In your room you can open it and have a private moment. Yeah I guess it can suck when everyone is jumping up and down and excited, but you can just shut your door. It's not like they're in the other girls room. People at my school are pretty respectful because many girls don't get bids, we have fairly competitive recruitment, girls who are excited are the ones who actually tend to leave and tone it down so they don't make the girls who didn't get bids feel bad.