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Originally Posted by AnotherKD
On another note, this forum is starting to get a lot like Dear Abby lately, isn't it???
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I say leave Abby alone and go ask Alice. *ba-dum-chh*
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Originally Posted by spaceykatie
One of the biggest issues I had then, though, was the ridicule I faced from my sorority sisters and friends. They thought we were too young and it was improper to live together.
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Was there more to it or was that it? Because if that's ridicule to you, your feelings must get hurt an awful lot.
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Originally Posted by 33girl
First off points for it being a two bedroom. If you do end up doing this, as silly as it sounds, I would make it so that each of you has your own room.
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That's the only way I would even consider it even with the promise of marriage. I want a room where I can go hide even when I'm married (and I full support my husband having a man-cave). There are times when I need my own space and when I don't have it, I get....well I can get into a mood that is NOT conducive for sustaining a relationship/marriage.
This is one of the many things that tells me I'm not ready to cohabitate, marry, or reproduce but I think a little of that will linger even as I mature--part of it's just who I am. If you're considering living with another person, really think if you can handle not having that space when you guys fight, when you're not feeling well, when your mood is funky, etc.
ETA: And I just happened to hear a Taylor Swift song on Grey's that I looked up on Youtube. Ironically, this the comment at the top:
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This song is exactly the story of my life right now.. After 3 years living together he just wants to quit.. So after all im not his princes.. this aint a fairytail.. just gonna cry now
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