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Originally Posted by Senusret I
I'm not sure that I would define violence as an act of hate.
There are a lot of variables here that you may not understand and that he may not yet understand in himself, psychologically, sociologically, etc.
Although you haven't disclosed your race (and it really doesn't matter), you should read Black Haze by Ricky Jones. It's a good first step to understanding the hows and whys of hazing, and it's my belief that there are similarities there among all organizations or chapters which haze.
Full disclosure: I wrote a novel called Lazarus which also deals with this topic. Although it is out of print, used copies are available through Amazon.
While I can't tell you whether you should leave your man or not, I don't think staying or leaving are the only options. |
Thanks. I really do want to understand what he feels about all these things. He gets frustrated when he tries to explain and I don't understand. Maybe that'll help me come to better decision.