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We had a kinda similar situation....A sister of mine moved out of town, and dropped to part time status...commuted just 2 days a week. So she was not around to participate, she went alumnae eventually. But before the official change of status, her Lil was feeling left out, so another sister decided to step in. I was prez at the time and I didn't mind that they spent time together and talked, wrote notes and stuff, but when the new adopted Big made the Lil a scrapbook listing HER family tree, I had to say no.....First of all, the first Big was planning on doing the scrapbook...it's just everyone is a little slow at handing them over. And second, alum in the first Big's family tree felt a bit snubbed too since they were still around to show family spirit.
So, my advice is just to consider the family tree issue...will you be hurting anyone else's feelings or stomping on someone's toes?
If your grand Big or other immediate family members aren't around anymore it shouldn't be a problem.
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