This couple is keeping the baby's gender a secret from everyone but those present at the birth, it seems. Not even the grandparents get to know. Their two boys (5 and 2) are allowed to choose if they want their hair long or short, if they want to wear boys' or girls' clothing and, when they are mistaken for girls, they are allowed to choose to either correct the person or not. This is to avoid the restrictions of gender roles and allow the children to choose what they want to be.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/yblog_theloo...er-under-wraps