Recs are a great boost at UF. Get one for every chapter you can!!
And being out of state doesn't hinder a woman in recruitment at all. I'm 99% sure every chapter has at least 1 woman from out of state - mine has several! So, don't worry about that at all!
The UF Panhellenic site is:
http://www.ufpanhellenic.com/home
The what to wear page was recently updated so its really helpful!!