I think there is a difference in telling PNMs to keep their facebooks clean and secure because it's just good sense and others telling PNMs "OMG, detag every picture you've ever been in if there is a single solo cup somewhere in the background and don't friend any sorority women before recruitment because they are only friending you to stalk you!!!!" (because this is truly how it comes across from some GCers).
Sure people in general should not be putting up content that they are not willing to be judged on. But I think that some PNMs get scared and detag every picture of a family members wedding because her uncle in the background is holding a beer bottle.
As for the friending issue, you can either be the PNM who rejects every sorority women's fb friendship request and be judged for that and miss out on potentially getting to know sorority women before recruitment (which we stress is a good thing) or you can accept those requests and just keep your page clean - which is good common sense.
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