Well as a new initiate (technically I think I am still considered one... hehe), I am going to be moving into the house next semester. I am nervous, but also excited.
One thing I am kinda worried/upset about is that I won't be living with my Big Sis. She left the house and turned in her badge. So now I am without a Big Sis. And everyone has told me that your Big is most important during your first semester in the house.
Well... what I wanna know is, can I get a new one? I mean, and have it be technical. Someone has already told me that they will be my "adopted Big," but I think that I should just be able to make if official.
I haven't brought any of this up with my chapter yet because it all happened during the last weeks of the semester. I had heard rumors that my Big wasn't returning. I tried getting in touch with her for weeks and then she finally called me and confirmed that she was leaving.
I just feel like I deserve a new one... someone that will be able to be there for me. Besides, we always have to write the members of our family on things. And I think it will be weird writing down the name of someone who isn't even a sister anymore.
Any advice, girls? Do you know if it is possible to get a new Big Sis?
Help me out!
