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Originally Posted by 33girl
If no one in the groups knows you as a junior AND you have already declined a bid, no matter how non-competitive the school is, the chance of your attaining sorority membership at this point is slim.
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My point is this-- why in the world would you want to get an entirely new group of friends your junior year? You said you've been there since you were a freshman, and you have already gone through recruitment once, so what is going to change to make this year different? It would be different if you hadn't gone through recruitment and you were still unsure of whether or not you fit in somewhere, but you have. And the process works (most of the time). So I'm at a loss.
If you are interested in going into recruitment again with a truly open mind, I say go for it with your whole heart; then you won't regret it. Otherwise I would suggest that you invest your time into other interests and passions of yours, and with the friends you already have. You were offered the opportunity to join a sisterhood once and you let it pass you by, I suggest you don't do the same again if you really want this. Good luck to you.