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You were given a bid. It was not your favorite. You went to meet the sorority on bid day.
Just how badly do you want to be in sorority? You are contradicting yourself by saying you want to be in a sorority, but, when one gave you a chance, you declined. Sounds like you want to be in sorority that meets your idealist needs. It does not work way. You screwed yourself.
There are countless stories on Greek Chat of those who did not get their first choice, pledged and found something. One member can make a difference. You never gave those women a chance.
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