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Old 05-01-2011, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by 33girl View Post
Do you need to drink? No. Do you need to do drugs? No.

Do you need to be sociable? YES.

If you don't like to go out every weekend, that's fine. However, if you are planning to only go to meetings and rituals, and never go to mixers, formals, or random parties with your sisters, you should probably skip sorority membership. Many sororities include social development as a main component of membership.

If you are looking at a sorority as "a push to maintain a good GPA" - I think you need to find a different "push." Maybe, um, getting a good job when you graduate?

Idk about that. I went to some functions throughout my membership--and enjoyed them, even though I didn't drink--but for the last two years of college, I had a job where going to parties could be a serious risk to my continued employment (I ran psychoed groups for students referred for MIPs or dorm write-ups, and while going to open parties wasn't prohibited in so many words, it was made clear that being at parties where people got "busted" or drinking irresponsibly ourselves was a really inadvisable idea. And of course, drinking under age--and I was underage until senior year--was an automatic no). So, I went to maybe a grand total of 2 parties outside of my chapter's functions (maybe 4-5 of those). I only went out drinking a few times senior year and drunk pretty minimally those times.

And you know what? I still made amazing friends with my sisters and have amazing memories. One of my best friends has never gone to fraternity party and rarely if every goes to functions, and yet still loves and gets a lot out of her membership. Movies, coffee dates, "study parties," campus activities, even just sitting around the dining room and chatting... all are ways to be social without going to parties.
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