Margie did not disrespect him. People can speculate all they want but if they are not members then they will never know the true meaning. Anyone can see Phi Nu Pi on Kappa's badge and on their crest and put 2 and 2 together. She was just stating the obvious. Is this accurate? Maybe, maybe not but as she said, it is an assumption and only a Kappa knows what it means. This is similar to AKAs knowing the significance of the ivy, Kappa Deltas about the dagger, Alpha Sigma Alpha about the phoenix or Zeta Tau Alpha about the crown. All of these are outward symbols of membership that anyone can see but only initiated members know the true and deeper meanings.