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I almost always make the gesture of getting my wallet out. 9 times out of 10, he says "I have it" and I don't make an issue out of it. With The Talker, after he paid for dinner and movie tickets on our second date, I offered to cover concessions at the movies and he declined. The next few dates, I didn't make a gesture. I wanted to see him for a quick dinner on Thursday and I picked up the check when the waitress dropped it at the table. He said "I'll get that" and I told him "Look, we're in this thing together, you don't have to shoulder the burden every time" and he smiled and said "Ok". Ultimately, eventually, it should be a partnership in my eyes.
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