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Originally Posted by Anchored4Ever
Not sure why you'd think I have sour grapes about being in a successful chapter...whatev. Like I said - next time I'll be more guarded when asking an honest question.
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Jealousy then. It comes off as not fair that these struggling chapters got to take more freshmen than you did. Your naming of names in the rivalry thread is enough to tell me exactly what your level of panhellenic spirit is. Newsflash, we are a LOT of alumnae here, and therefore we're giving you advice from beyond the "It's not fair" and "OMG TATTLE" grounds that many campuses devolve into during recruitment.
Put the big girl panties on and take the responses you get as they are given. You don't have to agree, but don't play hurt. You can be more 'guarded' however you like, but you'd do better to try and change your perspective instead.