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Originally Posted by Anchored4Ever
I appreciate the thoughtful insights (and am surprised at some of the strangely hostile commentary...)... Being new to this site, I guess I now know what to expect when I ask a question of this nature. I'll be more guarded next time. I really expected more sympathy than scrutiny. Now I just feel like I've gotten slammed for being a part of a successful chapter who doesn't have to COB...whereas if I'd been part of a smaller chapter & had a question like this, everyone would've been kind & helpful. At least now I know.
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This post is pretty reflective of your "sour grapes" attitude.
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may be questionable behavior in some people's eyes but you can't force them to take upperclassmen. If anything, they might get some flack from their HQ, maybe not.
I think you're just going to have to swallow some of your pride and acknowledge that not all things recruitment are 100% fair.