[victoriana]

My school falls into the category where we have some non-traditional students. For the most part, students are traditional age, but we have many commuters. My chapter has taken older women, and they were able to fit in because they didn't think they were better than everyone else and because they didn't take themselves too seriously. In my NM class, we had girls from 17 all the way up to 22. Once we got to know each other, age wasn't really an issue.

As for the married girl question, I guess it depends on the girl. I can see it being a problem if she had kids and/or a needy/controlling husband. If she and her husband were both young with no kids, I don't think it would be a problem as long as they communicated openly about time expectations, ect.