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Originally Posted by TXPheonix
I'm super excited about this upcoming fall term because ASA is coming to colonize my university. Sadly my local sisterhood isn't.
When I first got here I rushed pan and realized I didn't fit in with them and rushed local. We have since decreased in numbers to an extreme that none of us want be near each other. When we were offered ASA sisterhood I was in charge of researching so I could answer any question my sisters had and immediately fell in love. It had the rules, regulations, and national sisterhood I always wanted. Some of my sisters are on the fence but I have made my choice to rush.
They have since started saying mean and rude things to me such as I am a traitor. I have tried to explain that this is what I always wanted and it would be the change I need for the better and personal growth. Since y'all are actives and alumnae; is there any way you could give me advice on what to do to make them see I'll always be there for them?
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OK, I'm going to assume this is regarding the ASA colony that is being created from the ground up at West Texas A & M, which also has a local sorority.
If you discussed this as a group and the majority of your sisters do not want to pursue ASA membership, there's no two ways around it: you
are breaking the oath of loyalty you took to your sorority. Yes, you have to do what is right for you, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.