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Originally Posted by sophiebelle
No one in my family is Greek aside from myself, and honestly I had never even heard of a rec until I joined GC. On the other hand, a close friend of mine who went through recruitment with me at my school has an older sister who was the president of her chapter at a big Southern school. Although that sorority is not on my campus, her sister managed to get her recs for all of the sororities that are here.
Unfortunately, my friend was only pref'd at one so-called "undesirable" chapter and dropped out of recruitment. I am now a DG.
Also, deferred recruitment at a smallish school makes recs less important as well- if a girl is a huge skank, by the time January rolls around, you know.
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So what you're saying is your friend is a huge skank?
I'm confused.
Maybe she should have given that "undesirable" group a chance.
ETA on all the "if they want Susie they'll find a rec for her" in this thread. Perhaps it would be better if women were educated to know what they have to do. Analogy - if Joe Blow from BFE High wants to go to Harvard, Joe is going to have to write an essay. No one else from BFE High has ever gone to a college where you have to do this. Harvard isn't going to "find a way" for Joe to get in just because he has an awesome resume if he doesn't write an essay. Joe has to figure this out on his own. Joe isn't going to complain that it was unfair because he knew what was expected of him when he filled out the application.
Just because NPC or its member groups are tellling women to get recs on their own doesn't mean they have to divulge how they use them.