Thank you so much for all of the advice!
33girl- she was allowed and invited to go with the initiated sisters, and did sometimes. We had a lot of pledge sister bonding activities to do together (not mandatory but heavily encouraged), and that took up a lot of time (in addition to her homework- she is in a rigorous science-based major). What she was basically saying was that she couldn't wait until she no longer felt obligated to hang out with us children.
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