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Originally Posted by angels&angles
Savage does encourage extramarital affairs in some instances, but I wouldn't call it cheating. In the circumstances he proposes, he definitely encourages the affair-spouse to TELL the other spouse that this is what's going to happen (i.e. "I really need to have sex more than once a year, and if you can't do that for me, then I will look elsewhere"), whereas to me "cheating" implies secrecy.
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He does, but he has on occasion encouraged actual cheating. And I'm not sure that saying 'i'm going to do it' and then doing it even if your partner says 'that's not ok' is much better, but eh. I'm in a non-monogamous relationship, so it's not an issue for me at this point. (Yeah you
can cheat in that kind of relationship, but it's not a concern in mine.)
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And yes, I bet this is a cuckold-fetishist's dream.
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I wonder if this almost defeats the fetish. Like... it's too easy.
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It's depressing to me that the men in the article "loved" their wives who were "so beautiful" and "the perfect woman," and yet they need to sneak around somewhere/someone else for companionship. Especially the guy who was only engaged... some people aren't monogamous, but I'd rather know that upfront and make an informed decision than be serially cheated on through the relationship. Blah.
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Exactly.