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Originally Posted by YesNoMaybe
Hey everyone  my boyfriend is trasferring to Alabama next year and some of his friends told him to go through recruitment, and now he really wants to. However, he truly wants brotherhood and is super concerned about joining a chapter that hazes hard core. His best friend at Mizzou almost left the school after getting tortured so much during his new member process, and I just was wondering how one either a) Brings up the topic of being hazed during recruitment or b) finds out. He asked the guys at Alabama if they haze and all they said is 'they can't talk about that" sooo idk what that means, but, any advice? |
Whatever your bf goes through, he'll have to handle it if he wants it bad enough. Even if he chooses to endure something degrading, he's not likely to want you to know it. If you prod on the suspicion he's getting hazed, you may be adding to what he's going through.
As has been suggested by others, just be supportive from a distance. You can't carry his weight on this.