I'm not even sure I would have rushed as a freshman. In any case, I would have made a bigger effort to stay close with my "dorm friends".
During rush, I definitely would have kept my mouth shut about my family members' affiliations. I didn't realize that this could hurt me, but I think I screamed "joining XYZ!!!". I also would have been more guarded in conversations I had in front of my rho chis. I don't believe for one second that most rho chis keep certain things to themselves.
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