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If you have put preferences down on a bid card and signed the card, then you have in effect accepted a bid to the sorority that you match with, so if you do not feel comfortable anywhere that you pref, you should not fill out a bid card at all! You will be stuck for a whole year.
However, I think that you should stay in rush. I think that it is best for you to give every sorority on campus a chance and see what they have to offer. If after that experience, you still feel that DZ is where you want to go, then I would say it is okay to not put down anyone on your bid card.
Just because you show interest and go to informationals for DZ does not by any means guarantee you a spot. They will be holding the interested girls to a high standard in order to make the new chapter as strong and high quality as possible.
Hope this helps.
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