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					Originally Posted by prettyv  The part I have trouble with is where I am inexperienced. It's not so much about the letters as the fact that he's been in love before, and there's tangible evidence of that? It's hard for me to fathom, but I am pretty bad at relationships/love in general.
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 Some people are in love a zillion times in their life.  Some only once.  The one who is in love only once isn't necessarily "more" in love than the zillion-timer.
If anything, thank his whiny ex.  She taught him a good lesson - don't cave about important things because it might really screw you down the line.