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I personally feel that you are worrying about the letters too much. Be appreciative of what you actually have instead of going after the symbols that represent it.
In terms of lavaliering, I'd imagine support from his chapter would come with time. Perhaps his brothers sense something that you and he doesn't see. Or, maybe a little bit more time may be necessary. In any case, focus on the relationship itself, and if it's really as strong as you think it is, the lavaliering might just come with time.
I cannot count the number of times I've had friends who've been in relationships which they think are strong, but from my perspective, have issues. That may even include some people who have been exclusively dating for multiple years. They often don't believe me until the breakup actually happens. So, don't get too anxious.
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