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when i was in college, lavaliering was akin to "going steady" and like you might wear your hs boyfriends class ring, in college he might give you his lavalier to wear.
if you and your boyfriend broke up in hs, you would give back his class ring. he might then give his class ring to the next girl friend he had. The same mindset works for the lavalier. even if his former girlfriend did not give his lavalier back, he could go buy a new one and give it to you, unless there is a rule against that within his fraternity.
honestly though, it's just an emblem. it is really how you feel about each other and how you treat each other that is important.
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