Having been hurt by other black women, I am trying to make a conscious effort to be civil to other sistas. Slowly, but surely, I am getting better. Because of a lot of things that happened to me, I am VERY wary of Sistas, which is sad, b/c I should NOT be. I"m trying to forgive them, but it is hard to do.
Fortunately, I have met a lot of positive Sistas thru Zeta, so it might not be as hard as I thought.